Blake Lively vs Justin Baldoni — What The Internet Got Wrong. All Of It.
Or: I Ordered Pizza, Ignored My Family, and Read Court Documents. You're Welcome.
I was doing what I always do — scrolling the internet, keeping tabs on the world, minding everyone's business but my own.
And I stumbled on this case.
I had heard of it. The way you hear about things you don't particularly care about — peripherally, passively, enough to know it existed without knowing why it should matter to me. A Hollywood feud. A movie I hadn't seen. Two famous people being very publicly awful to each other.
And then the content started appearing.
Post after post. Video after video. An avalanche of commentary about how vile Blake Lively was. How manipulative. How dangerous. How she had weaponized her famous friends, terrorized a kind and gentle director, and used her husband Ryan Reynolds as an attack dog while hiding behind a smile and a hair care line. And Justin Baldoni — this feminist podcaster, this champion of women, this man who had literally built a career on being one of the good ones — was the victim. A wronged artist. A gentle soul caught in the crosshairs of a powerful and ruthless Hollywood machine.
I didn't know this. What exactly had she done? Because what I was hearing was genuinely terrible.
I knew Deadpool could be mean. I did not know how deep it went.
That's when I thought — I need to look at this myself. I need to find the source of this evil. I need to read the actual documents.
So I did. Over the course of about a week. I ordered pizza. I did not clean the house. I fed my family whatever required the least amount of effort and the fewest number of dishes. I read court documents instead of doing literally anything useful.
Now let me be clear about something before we go any further.
I am not Blake Lively's friend. Never met her. Never been a fan. I have no opinions about her hair, her husband, her promotional tour, or the outfit she wore that matched the book cover. I have no personal stake in this outcome whatsoever.
And Justin Baldoni. Also never met him. Never watched Jane the Virgin. Never heard of him before any of this. What I learned along the way is that before this lawsuit, he had built an entire public identity around being a feminist ally. A podcast called Man Enough. A book called Man Enough. A TED Talk. A whole movement dedicated to defending women and dismantling toxic masculinity.
Good for him. I'm sure it was very moving.
Here is my position on men who build careers out of speaking for women. I don't trust them automatically. Not because of this case specifically. Because of biology.
— Ava WittYou want to talk about what women go through? Deliver a child. Manage a menstrual cycle every month for thirty years. Walk into a salary negotiation and get offered less than the man who interviewed right before you. Navigate a room that was not built for you and smile through it anyway.
Until then — the podcast is appreciated. The movement is noted. The TED Talk has been watched.
But the documents are what I read.
I pulled up the actual unsealed filings. The real record — not the YouTube version, not the Reddit version, not the version that comes with dramatic music and a creator who has very strong opinions and conveniently timed uploads. The documents that any person with internet access and a willingness to let their house fall apart can read for themselves.
And somewhere in the middle of all of it, I had a very specific thought.
Where did these people get this information? Because it is not in here.
I checked the website Baldoni's team built — the one with the carefully selected messages displayed without context, without the surrounding conversation, without the documents that might explain what was actually happening when those words were written. Decontextualized texts arranged to tell a specific story. That is not evidence. That is interior decorating.
The more I read the actual documents, the more the internet version of this story began to look like something else entirely. Not journalism. Not analysis. Something that had been very deliberately constructed and very widely distributed to very receptive audiences.
I cover reality TV. That is what I do. Recaps, commentary, the glorious mess of people behaving badly in front of cameras for our collective entertainment.
But this — this is better than anything Bravo has ever aired. More dramatic. Better produced. And considerably more scripted. Except in this case the scripts are called court filings. And unlike reality TV, they are sworn. And public. And available to anyone willing to let the dishes pile up for a week.
I let the dishes pile up. I read the filings.
And here is what I found out there on the internet. I see people defending Blake Lively like she is their daughter. I see people attacking her like she personally wronged them. I see the same for Baldoni. I see fake news everywhere. I see takes so hot they could start fires. And I see people getting genuinely attacked — ATTACKED — for having an opinion that doesn't match the crowd.
I don't do sides. I do facts.
So here is what actually happened. Not what TikTok decided. Not what the stan accounts concluded. Not what the headlines chose to emphasize. The actual documents. Which are public. Which anyone can read.
And if you want to know which side I'm on — I don't have one. Not yet. Not until I see the full picture play out in a courtroom. That's what May 18 is for. That's what juries are for.
I'm just the one who read the documents. You're welcome.
FAKE NEWS #1: Blake Lively Lost. Baldoni Won.
This is the headline that has been everywhere for two weeks and it is wrong in every direction simultaneously.
Here is what actually happened on April 2nd.
Judge Liman dismissed 10 of 13 claims. Not all of them. Ten. And here is the part nobody is reporting correctly — those claims were not dismissed because the judge found them false. They were dismissed on jurisdiction and classification grounds.
The sexual harassment claims were thrown out because Blake Lively was classified as an independent contractor — not an employee. Federal harassment law protects employees. Not independent contractors. And the filming took place in New Jersey — not California where her lawyers filed.
The judge did not say the harassment didn't happen. The judge said this court cannot hear it under this law in this jurisdiction. There is a difference.
— A significant one. The kind that requires more than a headline to explain.Even Lively's own lawyer confirmed it publicly: the sexual harassment claims are not going forward not because the defendants did nothing wrong, but because the court determined Blake Lively was an independent contractor, not an employee.
Meanwhile — Baldoni's own $400 million defamation lawsuit against Lively and Ryan Reynolds was dismissed entirely in June 2025. Not on jurisdiction. Not on technicalities. Gone.
Baldoni won nothing. Lively lost nothing that matters on May 18. The jury hasn't spoken yet.
FAKE NEWS #2: The Judge Said The Harassment Didn't Happen.
No. He did not say that.
What Judge Liman actually did was go through every single harassment allegation one by one and apply a specific legal test. Not "did this happen?" but "was this gender-based conduct that created a hostile work environment under federal law?"
That is a very specific bar.
The scene where Baldoni allegedly rubbed his face and lips on her neck during filming — dismissed. Not because it didn't happen. Because it occurred during the performance of the job. A director and actor in physical proximity during a scene does not automatically meet the legal threshold under federal law.
What the judge did allow — calling her "sexy" outside of the professional context. The intrusion into her trailer. Personal comments that had nothing to do with the film and everything to do with her as a woman. Those cleared the bar.
Now here is why this matters for May 18. Those surviving incidents are potentially admissible to establish context. To show that when Lively raised concerns, she had legitimate grounds. And that what followed — the coordinated PR campaign, the smear operation, the digital army deployed against her reputation — was retaliation against a woman who complained about conduct that had legal basis.
The 17 bullet point letter. Her formal complaint before returning to set after the actors' strike. That document now becomes central.
That is what goes to trial on May 18. Not "did Baldoni harass her." "Did they destroy her reputation because she complained?"
— The jury decides.FAKE NEWS #3: She Stole His Movie.
I need you to think about this for exactly one moment.
The movie exists. It grossed $350 million worldwide. It is on streaming platforms right now. Nobody stole anything. The film is exactly where films are supposed to be.
Blake Lively entered this project with an executive producer credit. Standard for an A-list star. But the full producer title with PGA certification — that she had to fight for. For a year and a half. She wrote a five-page letter to the Producers Guild describing how she had produced every moment of the film from pre-production to worldwide marketing. She called it more meaningful than anything she had done in her twenty-year career.
She eventually got the credit. Then she used that credit to advocate for her creative vision. Which is what producers do. That is literally the job description.
Now here is the irony that nobody talks about. That same five-page letter — the one that proved she actually did the work — was used by the judge to classify her as an independent contractor rather than an employee. Which is why the sexual harassment claims were dismissed on jurisdiction grounds.
Her own documentation of her contribution both proved she was right and limited her legal protection.
That is not theft. That is a woman who did the work, demanded recognition for it, got it, and then watched that recognition be used against her in court.
— The film made $350 million. Somebody did something right.What Was Actually In The Unsealed Documents.
Here is what you didn't read anywhere. When Lively's lawyers asked Baldoni's team to produce their communications with content creators — the defendants produced zero documents. Zero. Despite having identified certain creators themselves as people they communicated with.
So Lively went directly to the creators.
Wayfarer paid social media consultant Jed Wallace $90,000 for three months. The invoices exist in the court documents. His publicist Melissa Nathan described a plan at $25,000 per month for what she called — her word — "untraceable" engagement to counter negative accounts and change the narrative.
Wallace described himself on LinkedIn as a "hired gun" with a "proprietary formula."
Baldoni himself wrote in his own texts that Lively "had the nuclear bomb" — that she could leak he was a bad person and make herself the victim. He wrote that the risk to his family wasn't worth the creative integrity.
His own PR team's internal chat noted the bad press against Lively was coming from "organic stuff from real people making TikToks — not bots." His own team. In writing.
The Content Creators. All 107 Of Them.
Lively subpoenaed over 107 content creators in total. Through Google. Through TikTok. Through X. They all said they weren't paid. They all said it was organic. They all said nobody told them what to say.
Let's look at what actually happened.
Andy Signore of Popcorned Planet — nearly one million subscribers, dozens of pro-Baldoni videos, and a documentary about the making of It Ends With Us currently in production — claimed he was a journalist protected by reporter's privilege and fought the subpoena in court. The judge disagreed. Firmly. The ruling stated that a YouTube channel is not a newspaper, not a news agency, not a wire service, and that Signore had not demonstrated his channel practiced anything resembling professional editorial standards. Privilege denied. The judge then reviewed his documents privately and found them "directly relevant to the heart of the matter" — the alleged coordinated smear campaign. He was ordered to hand over everything by December 17, 2025. Everything included an 89-page text thread with one of the Wayfarer defendants, compensation records, emails, and Instagram DMs with crew members. He appealed. In February 2026 his appeal was dismissed. The stay was lifted.
Perez Hilton was subpoenaed in July 2025. He fought it for months without a lawyer. The ACLU of Nevada stepped in to represent him pro bono. The day after their call to Lively's legal team — the subpoena was withdrawn. Not because Lively lost. Because Wayfarer had just produced 80,000 pages of documents the week before. She no longer needed Perez Hilton. He declared himself a victim. He said he beat her. She had already gotten what she needed.
Candace Owens was subpoenaed. She launched an entire investigative podcast series defending Baldoni. When 10 claims were dismissed in April 2026 she tweeted — and I want you to read this carefully — "We worked really hard on that one. In the end, truth wins."
We. Not I. We. For someone who said she knew none of the parties when the lawsuits were filed.
Megyn Kelly's production company Red Seat Ventures was subpoenaed. She gave nothing. She called Lively a narcissistic bully. She shares the same attorney as Justin Baldoni — Bryan Freedman.
They all said they weren't paid. They all said it was organic. The documents tell the rest of the story.
— The jury decides on May 18.One Last Thing. Then I'm Done.
I don't know Blake Lively. I don't know Justin Baldoni. I was not on that set. I did not live any of it.
What I have is the public record. The documents that were unsealed. The timeline that doesn't add up. The emails that exist and say what they say. The texts that are now part of the court record.
I ordered pizza. I let the dishes pile up. I ignored my family for a week. I read the filings instead of the headlines.
And if you want to know which side I'm on — I don't have one. Not yet. Not until I see the full picture play out in a courtroom on May 18. That's what trials are for. That's what juries are for.
I'm just the one who read the documents.
Draw your own conclusions. 🍷
✦ Ava's Verdict
10 claims dismissed on jurisdiction — not merit. 3 claims going to trial May 18. Baldoni's $400M case dismissed entirely. A coordinated PR campaign documented in unsealed emails. $90,000 paid to a self-described "hired gun" for "untraceable" social media manipulation. A YouTuber who claimed journalist privilege, lost in court, and was ordered to hand over an 89-page text thread with Wayfarer defendants. A woman who fought 18 months for producer credit and watched that same credit be used against her in court. The film made $350 million. Nobody stole anything. I read the documents so you don't have to. You're welcome. 🍷
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